15 Point Senior Year Inspection Checklist

September 2018
By Lee Binz
The HomeScholar

Senior year is complicated, but not difficult! Let’s do a quick checkup to make sure you are prepared for the tasks of senior year. Remember, the goal of senior year is completing college applications. The difficulty is that applying to college is a “process” and not a “moment.” Applications are not difficult, but they are very time consuming. Letters of recommendation are not hard; they just take time to acquire. The whole process takes a lot of time to complete. Each university will have a unique process, unique forms, and unique requirements. It’s complicated but not difficult.

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Do a quick review today, using this simple checklist, to make sure you aren’t missing any key pieces.

1. Start Early Senior Year

First of all, you really want to apply early and often. What that means is you need to hit the ground running. Begin filling out your college applications on the very first day of senior year. It takes time and effort, so you don’t want to get into a time crunch. If your child is going to be doing dual enrollment, it can help to start college applications in the summer. If they will be taking college classes full time, they won’t have the energy to complete applications as well. For dual enrollment, it can help to begin applications before fall classes of senior year. Colleges may provide admission and scholarships on a “first come, first served” basis, so applying early is very important.

2. Write Application Essays

College applications require multiple self-reflective, technically perfect essays, written by the student. Homeschool parents understand that “technically perfect” is difficult. It takes lots of time, editing, and rewriting. Other people need to read it and give feedback or suggestions. For teens, “self-reflective” is equally difficult. It often takes a long time to even consider what a self-reflective essay might be. Make sure you plan for plenty of time for the “considering” stage of writing. If you do begin filling out those applications on the first day of senior year, you can put your other English curriculum aside for awhile. Decide that you are doing a unit study on essay writing during September.

3. Complete Complicated Forms

Colleges can also have some pretty complex application forms. Those forms have lots of questions. Applications will require letters of recommendation about your student. It’s difficult to decide who should write those recommendations. The recommender must have plenty of time to actually write the recommendation. Once written, allow some time for it to be mailed to the college.

4. Meet Inflexible Deadlines

College applications have firm deadlines with strange expectations. They may be a lot of fine print. It some ways it feels similar to April 15th and filling out your federal tax forms. Firm deadlines, high expectations, lots of fine print, words you don’t understand, and if you mess up, there’s a huge financial consequence in the end. Oh Joy! Plan ahead and spend time on it, making sure that you start the first day of senior year. Even if it’s due in the last week of November, you’ll still need plenty of time to getting it ready.

5. Complete Official Transcript

Senior year is the absolutely critical time for you to complete your high school records. You will need to turn in your official homeschool transcript when you turn in your application. To do that, you include the classes that your child is currently taking so if they’re going to be taking Pre-Calculus this year, then you put Pre-Calculus on the transcript. But instead of a final grade, you can say To Be Determined (TBD) or In Progress/In Process (IP) to show that they are currently taking that class and they will be finished in June. But you want to have your transcript ready to go with their application early in the fall during senior year.

6. Write Course Descriptions

Most colleges will ask for additional material beyond the transcript. Create a reading list that includes book read for school and pleasure. I strongly suggest that parents write course descriptions. These are most important for very selective colleges, when the student has a strong college preference, or if good scholarships are critical. However, all applications may be strengthened by course descriptions, so I always recommend preparing them “just in case.” Include a paragraph of what you did, a list of what you used, and an explanation of how you graded.

7. Complete Homeschool Records

Additional homeschool records may be required. A university may request a reading list. They could ask for samples of work from any class, and sometimes request those samples in the student’s handwriting. They may request an activity and award list, or resume. Some applications may ask for a statement from the homeschool parent, or require a counselor letter that is completed by the parent. It’s sometimes helpful to write a cover letter as an introduction to your transcript. Since there are a variety of things that may be asked, planning ahead will give you the time you need to complete anything that is required.

8. Provide or Repeat Tests

The second priority during senior year is to shore up any shortcomings from junior year tests. Repeat the SAT® or ACT® if the scores were poor and could be improved, or if the test was missed. If you need to take those tests in senior year, register for the first testing opportunity so the results are promptly available. If subject tests are needed, you want to find out right away and register for those tests as well.

9. Fill Educational Gaps

Look over a list of recommended courses, and try to discover any major educational gaps. It can happen! In my own home, I completely forgot to teach my older son economics, because my younger son was always studying it for fun. Small gaps, like a semester economics course, or a year of art can be quickly filled when discovered early. Major gaps, like foreign language, may need to be filled with community college. For example, foreign languages may be required by a favorite college. Taking foreign language at a community college for one year can provide two or three high school foreign language credits, to fill that gap. Community college is not something that I normally recommend, but it can help fill major gaps discovered during senior year.

10. Carefully Watch Calendar

Watch deadlines and details and mark them on your calendar. Colleges can have some pretty unusual requirements and can ask for some pretty strange things. Be sure that you give them everything that they need and want. If they ask for a lab write up from your high school biology class, submit that. If they want a transcript in a signed envelope, do it that way. Find the details they want and give the details they want.

11. Complete the FAFSA®

The FAFSA® is used to determine how much money parents can afford to pay for college. Complete the FAFSA® in October of senior year. The FAFSA® will allow colleges to make decisions about your scholarships. Financial aid is first-come, first-served. Believe me, you want to be first!

12. Expect Waves of Scholarships

Expect three waves of scholarships. When you apply for college, you’re given some immediate scholarships that are based on SAT®, ACT® and GPA. The second wave of scholarships is based on the FAFSA® and financial need. That third wave of scholarships is based on merit or other factors. The third wave of scholarships may not arrive until May or June, and may even arrive during summer. For that reason, the most difficult time for the parents is that time between March and June. That is when parents know where the child wants to attend, but they have absolutely no clue on how to pay for it. It can be a very challenging and stressful time. I encourage you to be patient until you get that final wave of scholarships somewhere in between March and June.

13. Anticipate Dramatic Changes

It’s important to remember that you’re going to have dramatic changes over the four years of high school. Maturity just kind of happens. The changes that you’ve seen in your child between the time they were a newborn and when they were four years old is the same kind of dramatic changes that will occur between freshman year and senior year. Don’t be afraid that your child can’t possibly ever mature enough to graduate, or that they’ll never go off on their own. Huge changes take place between freshman year and senior year so don’t give up hope. Expect dramatic changes so that you’re prepared for anything.

14. Always Be Prepared

Instead, be prepared because teenagers do change their minds and they may go back and forth between, “I’m going to college,” and, “I’m never going to college. What a stupid idea.” Situations can change. You want to plan ahead as much as you can possibly can so that if your situation changes either for better or for worse, you’ll be prepared because you’ve been planning ahead. Be prepared in case your teenager balks at tasks required during senior year. Senior year is very close to adulthood, and sometimes adults don’t want to do what their mothers tell them to do. Be prepared when teenagers make those adult decisions as they are becoming adults. Also avoid fear that immobilizes you. The way to do that is to focus on that one, single goal that you have for each year of high school.

15. Find Success Fast

The best success comes to those who work the process early. Hit the ground running. The first day of senior year is the day you get to start working on those applications so that you get them turned in as soon as possible. I understand that in reality, not everyone will plan ahead. If you don’t have a clue about college admissions, and you are in the midst of senior year, it’s very difficult to quickly regroup in order to experience success. I have an emergency plan for families who haven't started preparing for the admission process prior to senior year. Here is a quick checklist just for those panicky parents.

Senior Year Last-minute 12-Step Emergency Panic Plan

1. Drop all school and activities and work on college applications
2. Watch “Super Scholarships for Humble Homeschoolers” (if you have time)
3. Go to a college fair and visit your four closest colleges or top choices
4. Register for the SAT® or ACT® (if not already taken) and put it on the calendar
5. Determine if you have all the classes required by colleges
6. Drop unnecessary classes and replace with missing college preparation classes
7. Take the SAT® or ACT® (if not taken junior year)
8. Apply to 2 public and 2 private universities
9. Write applications as required
10. Complete your course descriptions and homeschool transcript
11. Turn in application as soon as possible, transcript and test scores can follow
12. Return to your regular homeschooling and start planning your graduation party!

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The Best High School Guidance Counselor Is YOU!

August 2018
By Lee Binz
The HomeScholar

Guess who is the best high school guidance counselor? You are! And I can prove it! The average high school guidance counselor has 478 students. Based on this fact alone, it’s easy to see that the best high school guidance counselor is a loving parent, homeschooling naturally at home. You can homeschool high school fearlessly and confidently, knowing you are the best possible guidance counselor your child could ever have.

Currently, only two states meet the guidance goal of 200 students per counselor. You may feel out-numbered in your home, but you don’t have that many high school students by birth or adoption. Only 4 out of 10 public school students have ever (ever!) spoken to their guidance counselor.

On average, counselors spend 38 minutes per student during their high school years. Have you spoken to your child recently? How many minutes did you spend? It may have been more than 38 minutes before breakfast this morning.

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Take this quick assessment to determine your qualifications for this important job.

Qualifications Quiz

• How many adults (over 18 years old) are in your home? Give yourself 1 point for each.
• How many high school students are in your home? Give yourself 1 point for each.
• On a scale of 1 to 10, how well do you know these children? Add to the total.
• Have you spoken to your children today? Give yourself 1 point if “yes”.
• Do you have less than 478 students per adult? Give yourself 1 point if “yes”.
• Do you have less than 200 students per adult? Give yourself 1 point if “yes”.
  Score: 10 points or more means you are well-qualified

A score of 10 or more points indicates a well-qualified homeschool guidance counselor! Assuming you are an average homeschooler, you could have up to four high school students at a time. Which school do you believe has the better student-to-advisor ratio? The average school or your homeschool?

Factor into this equation the simple fact that you LOVE your child. You are emotionally, sentimentally, and financially invested in their lasting success. Homeschool parents know that if they don’t properly prepare their children, they might be financially responsible for those children for the rest of their lives!

More importantly, you also have a huge emotional investment in your child’s success, because you want them to do well. High school guidance counselors do their job to the best of their abilities, but they don’t know each child. You don’t need to feel hesitant in your own abilities or feel the need for an official guidance counselor. What’s needed is you; you’re the best person for the job.

If you are only half as qualified as a public high school guidance counselor, you are still able to be a hundred times more effective. You have the numbers on your side, you know your child better than anyone else, and the love for your child motivates you to success.

Don’t underestimate the importance of knowing and loving your child. I was getting my hair done one day, listening to two moms talk about their children in public school. One of them was describing how her child simply could not get through a Pre-Algebra class, which was too hard for him. The public school insisted that he move on to Algebra 1 but the school wouldn’t let him retake Pre-Algebra because he would fail, and they didn’t want him to be left behind. She asked her son during the first weeks of school how Algebra was going, and he replied that he was lost, had no clue what was going on, and felt he was going to fail. Two weeks into the quarter, she discovered that her son had been accidentally signed up for Calculus class. Instead of taking and failing Algebra 1, he was taking and failing Calculus.

As homeschool parents, we’re not perfect, but there’s no way we would make this mistake! We know our child and what they are capable of, so there’s no way we’d skip through three levels of math and put them in a class that’s way over their head. I understand that homeschoolers often feel inferior about their capability to counsel their children in high school. You have to admit that you would not make that kind of mistake.

Take this quick review of basic skills a guidance counselor uses to determine your readiness for the job. The U.S. Department of Education reports that 92 percent of high school guidance counselors perform five important tasks. Can you do these things?

Skills Assessment Quiz

• 1. Use College Catalogs
  Can you read, and use a catalog? These substantial catalogs resemble gigantic phone books, and you can find them in public libraries. If you know where your public library is or know how to buy books online, give yourself 1 point.
• 2. Individual Counseling Sessions
  Have you spoken to your teenager recently? Would you consider it an individualized conversation? (Focused on your teen or their needs.) If so, give yourself 1 point. I know that in various high schools, guidance counselors ask that a student bring a list of their activities, or a resume with them when they meet. If you had to ask your child to bring a resume to your individual counseling session, subtract 1 point.
• 3. Use Computerized Career Information
  Computers tend to be found in homeschoolers’ homes and some use the computer at a library or resource center. If a computer is not available, a librarian can direct you to career information sources in print. If you know where your public library is or you know how to make use of a computer, give yourself 1 point.
• 4. Use Non-computerized Career Information
  If you have spoken to your child about getting a job, if your child has ever earned money in any way or held a non-paying job of any kind, or if you know how to make use of your public library, give yourself 1 point.
• 5. Coordinate and Interpret Tests
  There are two websites that offer all the information you need to schedule and understand high school tests: Collegeboard.com and ACT®.org. If you can locate these websites on the internet, give yourself 1 point.
  Score: 5 points or more means your skills are sharp

How did you score? If you received 5 points, you are capable of offering the same service as a public school guidance counselor. Less than 5 points may warrant remedial computer services. Just ask your teen. You’ll be up to speed in no time!

How to be the BEST Guidance Counselor
You are qualified and have the necessary skills. Let’s talk about what will help you become the best guidance counselor for your homeschool teen.

1. Focus on Flexibility
Teenagers will change their minds, which means focusing on being flexible. College preparation is important for all students. College-bound students need coursework designed to prepare them for college studies. Students need to take college admission tests and parents must learn about grades and credits. College-bound students need a homeschool diploma and a homeschool transcript. College preparation for college-bound students is expected.

But have you ever taken into consideration what a college preparatory home education might offer for students who will not go to college? Rigorous academics could benefit children even though they are not planning for higher education. Without college, a homeschool education could be the only formal education a student gets. Academic preparation will not hurt anyone and if they don’t go to college, it won’t go to waste. College preparation may help your child be a more effective employee or business owner, a smarter citizen, and a confident homeschool parent. Planning for college can’t hurt your child and it delivers flexibility for the future.

2. Become the Project Manager
Homeschool parents assume four main roles throughout their children’s lives: caretaker, teacher, mentor, and friend. During high school, the teacher role becomes increasingly less important. College preparation necessitates that you take a “project manager” role. Our job gets to be more administrative, however it is not going to become more time-consuming or complicated. It’s simply different.

3. Plan Courses
Plan your high school classes. Throughout eighth and ninth grades, find out about your own state requirements and try to make a system to meet those requirements. Look at the common college expectations for recommended high school courses. Look over and adjust your high school plan each year. Budding nurses and engineers might have to buckle down on math, and those getting ready to be missionaries could benefit from additional foreign languages. Learn to develop a flexible, big-picture plan with my article, “Planning High School Courses.”

4. Plan for Tests
Arrange for standard high school tests. Which tests should your child take, when do they take them, and how do you know? The majority of the answers are found on two websites: CollegeBoard.com and ACT®.org. Register your child for the PSAT/NMSQT® in 10th grade for fun, and in 11th grade to be considered for the National Merit Scholarship. College admission tests, such as the SAT and ACT®, are typically taken in spring of 11th grade and repeated in senior year only if necessary. As a homeschooler, you can help your child get the best possible SAT or ACT® score with the least possible stress. Subject tests are best taken immediately after your child finishes each subject; they are required by some colleges.

5. Encourage Extracurricular Activities
You desire your child to be well-rounded and so do colleges. Encourage your child to volunteer or seek employment, internships, or apprenticeships. Encourage activities such as sports, music, and art. Colleges love to see kids who are enthusiastic about something. They can see this elusive enthusiasm in extra-curricular activities students maintain through all four years of high school.

6. Find Appropriate Colleges
To accomplish your intention of selecting ideal colleges, the first step is to go to a college fair. Comparable to a homeschool convention, a college fair is a fast, straightforward way to learn a lot about multiple colleges in a brief amount of time. Step two is getting your child to take the PSAT/NMSQT® in October of junior year. Third is taking time to stop by colleges during the year, so you can eliminate poor choices from your list. The fourth step is taking the SAT or ACT® in the spring, which might help you discover the appropriate college fit both academically and financially.

7. Contemplate College Finances
We all know we should be saving for college, however intentions don’t always match reality. Regardless of your saving success, learn how homeschoolers earn scholarships. Don’t be afraid to consider private colleges. They sometimes provide considerably better financial aid than public schools and usually their costs are comparable. College tuition is like buying a car. Hardly anyone pays the sticker price, so don’t be afraid of a school’s list price.

In October of senior year, you need to complete the FAFSA®. The Free Application for Federal Student Aid is an IRS-style form that helps colleges decide how much money the government believes you will be able to afford to pay for college - usually with comical results! Here we are having to worry about the price of gasoline, and they think we can manage that amount? The FAFSA® is used to find out how much financial aid colleges will award.

8. Prepare High School Records
When you determine which colleges your child will apply to, ask each college what high school records they need from you. It can vary drastically and there is no way to know unless you ask. They may only request a transcript.

Some colleges may also want to see a simple reading list, but others will want exhaustive course descriptions and grading criteria. Sometimes they have unusual and unique requirements. The quality of a student's high school record is the most important factor in college admission decisions. Most colleges require, request, or appreciate course descriptions.

Find out their requirements early on to make sure you can give them what they need. I always advise keeping everything in high school – you never know what colleges will want. One college asked me for an English paper that I had graded. Another college needed subject tests in several different areas. Like a Boy Scout, always be prepared! At the end of homeschooling, at the end of senior year, don't forget to send the college a final transcript that includes graduation date, final grades, and grade point average.

9. Apply to Colleges
Guide your child through the college application process. College applications are generally lengthy and complex. Admission essays will be tedious and time consuming. Plan to begin the application process during September of senior year to allow enough time to complete it. It’s possible to write college application essays in junior year if you prefer to plan ahead. You can always alter them before submitting.

10. Apply Early in Senior Year
Each college may require two or more essays, and each application could be many pages. Quite often, admission and financial aid decisions are “first come, first served” which means it can be worthwhile to plan ahead. I encourage students to finish applications by January first whenever possible, to be in the best situation. The college deadline might be later, but they will be overloaded with applicants near the deadline. They can give your child’s application a more relaxed reading if you turn it in early.

11. Keep it Simple
You have only one goal per year during the four years of high school. In freshman year, all you have to do is contemplate college. Sophomore year is the time to prepare for college. The focal point of junior year is selecting a few colleges where your child would like to apply. During senior year, the main goal is completing college applications.

12. Take Continuing Education
If you spend just a few minutes each month thinking about what you need to do, you'll never fall behind. You are prepared to be a great high school guidance counselor. For the best success, take continuing education seriously. Read books and take classes about homeschooling high school each month to get a gentle reminder about your current tasks.

For parents of college-bound students, continuing education is even more important. Knowing what to do and when to do it can make a huge difference in the amount of financial aid and admission offers. The College Launch Solution will teach you everything you need to position your high school student to receive the best possible admission and scholarship awards, and then help them succeed throughout college and into their career.

Be Brave and Have Confidence in Homeschooling
The guidance counselor at a public school has a huge job. Hundreds of students, with only eight hours in a day. They are responsible for the college and career plans of hundreds of kids they don't know. Our job as homeschool parents is significantly more manageable. We are only responsible for our own children, whom we know extremely well.

Homeschoolers have the advantage in college preparation! We are intimately involved in our children’s education. Because of this, we truly recognize their strengths and weak points, their ambitions and passions. We can offer the best guidance counseling for them because we are love-givers, not just care-givers. In school settings, a guidance counselor may know about tests and deadlines, but they have hundreds of students to guide and might only speak to each student once or twice. Just like our fantastic student-teacher ratio, our student-advisor ratio can’t be beat!

Be brave! You know your child better than anyone and you are completely capable of offering the guidance they require through high school. You can do it! "Remember, amateurs built the Ark. Professionals built the Titanic."

The Best High School Guidance Counselor Is YOU!
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Visit Colleges in the Spring

 

April 2019
By Lee Binz
The HomeScholar

Spring is the time to visit colleges. Arranging college visits during spring of junior year is an important step toward getting into a perfect-fit college. Your family needs to really get to know the college. Colleges can look very similar on paper, with brochures full of sunny days and beautiful fall leaves. Even when pictures and statistics look the same, you really don’t know what a college is like until you visit.

The college also needs to get to know your student. What colleges really want is "demonstrated interest." Learn how to demonstrate interest and get six important tips for your college visit. Evaluating colleges carefully can make the transition from homeschool senior to independent college freshman much easier.

 

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Demonstrate Interest

Visiting colleges is a great way to demonstrate interest. Through your actions, show an interest in the college and a desire for your child to attend if offered admission. Demonstrating interest takes time and effort. Colleges do not want to be rejected because that can affect their ranking. For this reason, colleges are more likely to admit you and give you scholarships if they think you will accept their offer of admission. Visiting the campus indicates your child is more likely to stay at that one college for all four years without transferring.

6 Tips for College Visits

If you’re a parent of a homeschooled teenager, you’ve probably been thinking about college for a while now! As you and your student prepare for that not-so-far-away event, now is the time to start visiting colleges that interest you. Colleges can look similar on paper, with brochures full of sunny days and beautiful fall leaves. Even when pictures and statistics look the same, you don’t know what a college is like until you visit.

Tip 1 - Let them know you’re coming

Whether you visit a campus on a special preview day, a regular school day, or for an overnight visit, you should sign up with the admissions department and let them know you are coming. It’s easy. Most college websites include a place to register for a visit. Don’t miss this opportunity to let colleges know you’re interested in them! Some colleges keep records of how often prospective students come to visit. If you decide a college may be the one and you’ve visited them four times, they will look on this favorably and value you more because of it.

Tip 2 - Meet admission representatives

When visiting a prospective college, your student should dress neatly and be clean, pleasant, and charming. The school will likely be watching you as closely as you are watching them. Students should make a point to talk to the college admission staff. It’s easy for parents to take control here and run the show, but this is a mistake. This time, your student should do most of the interaction.

It is important for parents to find out the college’s policy for homeschool applicants and determine what records they want from your homeschool. There are many colleges where homeschoolers are treated the same as all other applicants. Other colleges have certain hoops homeschoolers need to jump through, perhaps additional testing or requirements unique to the college. It’s important to know about requirements up front, so make sure to ask about this during your visit.

Whether you visit a campus on a special preview day, a regular school day or for an overnight visit, you should sign up with the Admissions department and let them know you are coming. It’s very easy. Most college websites will have a place to register for a visit. Don’t miss this opportunity to let colleges know you’re interested in them! Some colleges keep records of how often prospective students come to visit. If you decide a particular college may be “the one” and you’ve visited them four times, they will look at this very favorably and value you more because of it.

Tip 3 – Take a tour and a class

Prospective students are usually asked if they want to visit a classroom and take a campus tour. These are great opportunities — don’t miss them! Choose a class that interests your student or attend a general freshman level class to see what the first year of college will be like. Attend informational meetings with the financial aid department, if offered.

As you tour the campus, remember that the tour guide will usually only show you the places that make the school look good. Throughout all of these activities, you and your student should be taking notes. Write down the details (names, classes visited, impressions, strengths, and concerns). This information will help you remember each college you visit and will provide your student with great content as they prepare their application essays.

Tip 4 – Evaluate with all your senses

While visiting, use all your senses as you walk around: look, listen, feel, taste, and touch. Your answers to the following questions might help you choose between colleges that seem to be equal on paper. Prospective students and their parents are usually given meal vouchers to eat on campus.

• Is the food healthy and appealing? Could your child eat there for four years and remain healthy?
• Does this college seem like a positive environment?
• Can you picture your child living here for four years?
• Do the students appear happy and respectful?
• Is it a pleasant atmosphere?
• How does it make you feel about safety and security?

Tip 5 – Ask essential questions

Students should ask open-ended questions to (hopefully) engage in meaningful conversation. When you visit a college, prepare questions in advance to get information you can't find online or in their view-books. Think about general categories of questions you might need to ask. Phrase them the way you would ask in real life, not using words from someone else. Ask about admission, academics, financial aid, student life, campus experiences, and how they measure success. Try to ask open-ended questions that don't have a yes or no answer.

Parents may want to ask about homeschool admission policies. A simple, open-ended question can tell you a lot about whether a particular university is friendly or fussy toward homeschoolers. Explain that you are a homeschool family. Ask if there is anything specific they like to see from homeschool students, and how you can help them understand your teen’s education.

There are important issues you want to discuss on your visit. Review the list of essential questions for a college visit in our infographic. Think about what you learned and ask yourself a few questions about what you learned and how you felt afterward.

Tip 6 – Evaluate campus carefully

Visiting a college is a critical step in finding a perfect-fit college for your teen. Assess each university carefully so you know their views. You need to know whether a college with “Christian” in their name will match your family values. You can tell little from the name of a college and you can tell only a little more from their marketing materials. You don’t know the personality of the college until you encounter it in person, during a college visit.

There is no perfect college, as there are no perfect people. But a purposeful visit can help you find the best college for your child.

Send Thank You Notes

Your student should send a" thank you note by email within a few days of their visit. It's acceptable to also follow up by snail-mail with a mailed letter, which will demonstrate serious interest in the college.

The thank you email should not only express thanks, but also act as a follow-up, with questions that continue the conversation and interaction with the college. Parents and teens can brainstorm ideas to include in the letter, but it should be composed by the teen, so it sounds like them. The emails should also be sent from the student via a serious email address, not a goofy one with immature or questionable words or phrases.

Send thank you notes to every person you can who represented the college: the admission officers you met, tour guides, professors, college fair representatives, the person who interviewed your child, and, even those who sent letters of recommendation. Some colleges keep a record of how many contacts you make, so it can help to write a letter by hand.

I realize it’s an investment of time, money, and energy to visit colleges like this. Think of each visit as an investment in your college fund. Hopefully these interactions will pay off in the long run, with wonderful admission offers and great scholarships.

Recommended Resources

Finding a College: A Homeschooler's Guide to Finding a Perfect Fit (Short Coffee Break Book)

Parents homeschooling high school sometimes get the feeling that the light at the end of the tunnel might just be a train heading straight at them! That train is called “college,” and one of the most angst-ridden tasks facing homeschooling families is choosing a college that will be a perfect fit for both the student and the family.

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College Applications Simply Explained (Free Workshop)

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College Launch Solution (Complete Solution)

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The HomeScholar Guide to College Admission and Scholarships

There’s nothing more stressful to parents than college admission and scholarships. Many parents question whether it’s even possible to find a college that is satisfying to both parent and child, a college that will love their student and offer them scholarships to attend. The HomeScholar Guide to College Admission and Scholarships puts these concerns soundly to rest.

Learn secrets to successfully tackle the college process. Learn to prepare your child, find a fit college, and earn scholarship that will make it affordable. Whether this is your first graduate or you have already launched a student into college, you need this resource. Available on Amazon.

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Taming Middle School Anxiety

July 2018
By Lee Binz
The HomeScholar

Awkward Age

Middle school can be the sweetest, most rewarding time to homeschool! Parents can gently guide their preteen through the physical, intellectual, and social changes that come with this age. If you have been homeschooling successfully, nothing dramatic will happen when your child changes grade levels and enters middle school. They will still have the same learning style. The strategies that worked for you before will still work. You can reconnect with your child and prepare them for high school and beyond. Middle school doesn't have to be the train wreck you remember or have seen depicted on TV! You can ensure your child learns appropriate behavior in the safety of your own home.

Many homeschool parents still feel anxious about middle school. Parents can find themselves suddenly staring across the breakfast table at strangers. Delightfully compliant children can suddenly act out like surly teens with attitude. Thankfully, as homeschoolers, we can shape and mold our children through this process, even during bursts of hormonally-charged awkwardness. 

Homeschooling middle school and high school can seem like a daunting challenge to even the most seasoned homeschool parent. Wouldn't it be wonderful to have a proven road-map showing you how to get the most out of your experience while sidestepping all the traps? You can! The HomeScholar High School Solution can help you at your point of greatest need. Providing a wide array of reading will help each child find enjoyment in reading. Download a Free Printable Reading List. .

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Read more to gain a healthy perspective about middle school education and prepare your child for their high school years.

The Goal of Middle School

The goal of middle school is to prepare your children for high school. Middle school is called Junior High School in some areas. It usually includes grades 7 and 8, although it sometimes includes grade 6 or grade 9 as well.. It’s intended to provide a gradual and age-and-ability appropriate transition between the elementary school and high school.

Whether your child is ahead of the curve, or struggling in one or more areas, you simply can’t be “behind” in middle school. Educate your child to meet their current needs, whether they are remedial, on track, or advanced. In fact, the best thing that you can do in middle school is to instill of love of learning, so they look forward to high school. With hands-on learning fun sprinkled in, they’ll hopefully be eager for the in-depth learning in years to come.

Middle School's Purpose for Parents

First, your purpose is to understand middle school. It is normal during this awkward age for children flit back and forth between childishness and maturity. Understand that there is a wide variety of abilities between different middle schoolers. Some are super-star academics with excellent work ethic. Some are gifted or academically capable. Others are challenged in one way or another. This wide range of normal was why middle school was created, so college-bound students could do college-prep work not available in elementary school, and remedial students could boost up their skills in preparation for high school level work.

Second, your purpose is to learn about high school. Nationally, most parents stop homeschooling during or after middle school, and in my experience it’s overwhelmingly because of fear. You can remove the fear of homeschooling high school during 7th and 8th grade. Read your state homeschool law. Learn about high school record keeping, and class selection. Get a general understanding of tests. Once the fear of high school is removed, parents are more able to make informed decisions that are best for their children. Again, the High School Solution will give you a deep understanding and confidence about homeschooling high school

Middle School's Purpose for Students

Middle school is a pause between elementary school and high school. The pause was developed because children learn at different rates – not only homeschoolers, but all kids! So, the pause is used to give slow or reluctant learners a time to catch up before high school. At the same time, it gives quick and academically capable children a chance to continue learning at their level.

The first purpose of junior high is to give struggling students some remedial help. Students below grade level in math can spend the time focusing on math. They can use the time to get up to grade level again. These children aren’t behind. They are using the time given to them for this purpose.

The second purpose of middle school is to allow students ahead of grade level to move straight into high school level work. Children doing high school level work competently, using high school level material with understanding, can include high school credits on their transcript. Algebra 1, biology, and perhaps a foreign language, are common high school level classes that may be taught in junior high.

7 Big Benefits of Homeschooling Middle School 

Below are the seven greatest advantages you will see if you decide to homeschool middle school. These are real benefits for you, your child, and your family.

1. Social benefits: parents have time to shape and mold behavior and ensuring a wholesome environment in curriculum choices and extracurricular activities.
2. Physical benefits: physical maturation rates vary dramatically. So whether students are adult-looking or not, parents can provide appropriate content for their child.
3. Character benefits: parents have the time and ability to instill the values, work ethic, and morals of the family.
4. Family benefits: with additional time with parents and family members, homeschoolers are creating memories and bonds that last a lifetime.
5. Problem solving: rather than facing challenges alone, as students interact with others they have their parents close by and can discuss tough situations that arise.
6. Academic benefits: each student can proceed at their pace in each subject all the time, with their unique learning style in mind, to maximize the love of learning regardless of ability level.
7. Curriculum benefits: parents can choose curriculum appropriate the maturity level, academic need, and learning ability, keeping children challenged, but not overwhelmed.

In elementary school, parents learn that children read on their own unique time-table. This is true in middle school as well. Parents can’t force a child into puberty early, neither can they force algebra or logical understanding before they are ready either. Take it one step at a time. 

Remedial, Ready, or Right

Whether your child is remedial or advanced, you can keep their subjects challenging, but not overwhelming. Middle school is the time to advance in subjects when the student is ready, but it’s also the time to review subjects that still need more time. Some children are right at grade level. Not all children are at a remedial level or ready for advanced classes. They don’t all have to be doing remedial work or high school work; you can do remedial work in certain areas and move ahead into high school work in other areas. This is a far superior situation for your child than the typical “assembly line” public school.

Many students are right in the middle! Your job is to teach your children at their level in each subject, all the time. Your child might be on grade level for everything but math, or excel in foreign language but suffer in writing, with other subjects right on target. The joy of homeschooling is being able to provide for your child’s academic needs in every subject. They aren’t grouped into broad age-based classrooms, but are being taught precisely at their level.

The good news about junior high is that it’s absolutely impossible for you to be behind. If your child is below grade level and they’re in 7th or 8th grade, then work on getting them up to grade level again.

Test Preparation

The best test preparation is a well-educated student, not a well-prepped student. Cover English skills like vocabulary, spelling, simple grammar, reading, and writing. Include math, history, and science each year, and you will do more to increase test scores in high school.

Do not give the SAT® or ACT® test that is beyond their ability. When exposed to tests they simply can’t succeed in, students can develop test anxiety, and feel less confident about tests in general. Instead, use a grade-level test that’s age-appropriate (like the ITBS for 7th grade or CAT-8) so you get a truer measure of ability. One grade-level standardized test each year will give you the information that you need about academic achievement. It will also give the student one experience per year taking a standardized test with a group of friends. They don’t need to prepare for that test, they are simply taking it for practice and you can use the results to guide your curriculum choices next year, while students comfortable with filling in bubble tests in a group, while being timed.

Early High School Credits in Middle School

If your child is doing high school level work in an academic subject area like math, science, or foreign language, put that on your transcript. Students who pass these courses and the final exam will automatically be granted high school credit. These grades will be reflected on the student’s high school transcript and included in cumulative GPA calculations.
These early high school courses must have the same expectations, curriculum and final exams as the equivalent courses taught in high school. In public schools, they often allow early credits only in math (algebra 1 or higher), science (high school biology or higher) and foreign language (using a high school curriculum.) In other subjects, I don't recommend using early high school credits, but of course the parent always knows best.

Middle school is the perfect time to build a love for reading. Here are some great books to use. Click to download: The HomeScholar Middle School Reading List

7 Big DON’Ts of Middle School

Create sensible academic strategies and remain balanced. Avoiding these seven common blunders of middle school parents will help you avoid burnout and move forward with confidence.

1. Don’t expect instant maturity
2. Don’t expect consistent behavior
3. Don’t expect learning styles to change
4. Don’t expect complete independence
5. Don’t compare – someone will get hurt
6. Don’t overwork and burn out your student
7. Don't include test prep for the SAT® or ACT®

7 Simple Steps to Middle School Success

If you tend to get stressed by too much information, read no further! But if you are a parent who likes to plan ahead, I have some additional suggestions.

1. Make a Plan
You will find it helpful to plan your middle school and high school courses. A rough draft with a five-or-six year plan can eliminate some of the “Oh, no! High school!” panic I sometimes see in parents. Develop a plan that will include English, math, science, and social studies each year. Consider introducing a foreign language in middle school, so you can ease into it, allowing for plenty of time to get the two to three years of foreign language many colleges require.

2. Cover the Basics
Your child will need to know how to read fluently and write understandably. They will need to understand key math concepts, so they can build on those skills in high school. Encourage the love of learning with delight directed activities when possible. Reading, writing, math, and attitude are the four cornerstones of study skills.

3. Develop Study Skills
Teach your child to complete assignments when directed and to take a test calmly, without anxiety, for optimal performance. Provide assignments so your student can complete work on their own while learning time management one day at a time at first. Later, give assignments one whole week at a time. Much later in high school, your child will be ready for long term assignments, perhaps one month at a time.

4. Encourage Organization
Provide an organized study space, with necessary tools at hand. Have a place to keep papers – perhaps a notebook for each subject. Encourage your child to work with a schedule or assignment list and to use a calendar for assignments. When they have a regular time, place, and procedure for studying, your child is more likely to take those habits with them after high school. Explain how to manage their assignments. It often works to do the “worst first” - the most difficult or least enjoyable subjects first. It also helps to break big projects into smaller steps. Estimate time for each step.

5. Practice Time Management
Help your child to understand time commitments to make sure expectations are reasonable while they balance school and friends. Encourage your child to take regular breaks. I suggest about 30 to 50 minutes of study, with at least 10-minute breaks. This is even more important for active learners, young men, and athletes. Regular exercise breaks, especially strenuous activities, can help teenagers manage hormones. Remind your child that daily study is most effective. Avoid letting them cram for tests or writing papers, as can sometimes happen in co-op and classroom settings.

6. Research College Financing
College financing can be confusing, so spend time investigating options well in advance. Although earlier is easier, it’s not too late to begin saving for college. Research the College 529 Plan. Learn about the different investment plans available, and try to start setting money aside now. Estimate the financial aid you might receive from colleges. To do so, use the FAFSA® forecaster at www.fafsa4caster.ed.gov. There's a good article by FinAid on the basics of saving for college. FinAid: Saving for College.

7. Do Not Panic
Focus on learning and you can’t go wrong. When you genuinely care about your child's education, you are taking the necessary steps for high school. A variety of different homeschool methods can be successful. You don’t have to change your method of homeschooling when you are thinking about high school or college. Instead, focus on learning on purpose each day. When your child is in middle school, you can’t be behind. Do your best to educate your child and you won’t go wrong!

Relax and enjoy homeschooling while you successfully navigate 6th through 8th grades. You can maintain the love of learning, and homeschool middle school with powerful purpose, but it never has to be overwhelming. Would you like to read more easy to implement ideas to homeschool with peace and calm? Learn to make reading fun with these easy-to-implement ideas. Read 7 Ways to Encourage Reading in Middle School, and get a free printable middle school reading list. Encouraging reading can be a fun way to help children love learning. When reading is enjoyable, children see homeschooling as a fun educational option, not a chore forced on them by a taskmaster. 

Would your middle schooler rather do chores than read? You need better books! Click to download my list of the best out there: The HomeScholar Middle School Reading List

Relax and Enjoy This Season

Take a deep breath. Be calm. Relax and enjoy homeschooling while you successfully navigate 6th through 8th grades. You can maintain the love of learning, and homeschool middle school with powerful purpose, but it never has to be overwhelming. Would you like more easy-to-implement ideas to homeschool with peace and calm? Learn to make reading fun with these easy-to-implement ideas. Read 7 Ways to Encourage Reading in Middle School, and get a free printable middle school reading list. Encouraging reading can be a fun way to help children love learning. When reading is enjoyable, children see homeschooling as a fun educational option, not a chore forced on them by a taskmaster.

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If you are a beginner to homeschooling high school, consider the High School Solution, which provides detailed training on homeschooling all the age groups, from middle school through senior year. The resources included give specific help for all stages, from getting started, planning high school courses and understanding high school testing, to college admission and scholarships.

Get complete instruction for choosing curriculum, encouraging delight directed learning, and teaching advanced subjects through training classes for parents, all with handouts or workbooks plus articles and templates.

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