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How to Successfully Move to a New State While Homeschooling

Moving can mean a lot of change, but it can be good change! There are specific steps you can take to help your child make a smooth transition. Here are some practical tips to help you navigate the move effectively:

Finding New Friends

For homeschoolers, making new friends can be a top priority. Consider these strategies:

Join a Homeschool Co-op: These groups often provide a built-in community and opportunities for socialization. They can be an excellent way for your child to meet other homeschoolers. Plus, they can help take the responsibility of some classes off our shoulders.
Look for Homeschool Support Groups: Many support groups organize activities specifically for teens, which can be a great way for your child to make friends. Facebook is a fantastic way to get plugged in to these groups.
Participate in Local Activities: Check if there are local events tailored for homeschoolers, such as homeschool skating, bowling, or other recreational activities. Local libraries often have free events for the teens and young people in the community.

Preparing for Cultural Differences

Moving to a new area can involve cultural adjustments. Here's how to help your child adapt:

Discuss Potential Culture Shock: Talk to your child about the possibility of differences in fashion, speech, and music preferences in the new location. Assure them that it's normal to take a few months to feel like they fit in. Remind them that they don't have to change who they are to fit in, but to be aware of the differences going in.
Understand Co-op Expectations: Each co-op may have different requirements for parental involvement or rules about participation. Familiarize yourself with these expectations ahead of time. For example, the local homeschool co-op may require you to be there the entire time your child is on site, or they may require all parents to babysit infants while your teenager takes classes.

Researching State Homeschool Laws

One critical step in your preparation is understanding the homeschool laws in your new state:

Check State-Specific Homeschool Laws: As you are researching your new environment, make sure you look at the state homeschool information, NOT the state public school information. It's often quite different! This article will help you locate your new state homeschool law: Know Your State Homeschool Law.

Early Engagement with Local Co-ops

Getting involved with a local co-op early can ease the transition:

Visit Co-ops Before Moving: If possible, visit co-ops in your new area before the move to get a sense of their community and registration timelines. Many co-ops register for fall classes in early spring, so early engagement is crucial. If it isn't possible to visit in person, consider a phone call to ask all the questions you may have.
Consider Financial Investment: You may need to invest financially to secure a spot in a co-op before you move. This ensures your child can participate and start making friends immediately. This is part of why early research is so essential. Budget in this investment so you care be sure you have a spot when you move.

Selecting Classes Wisely

Choosing the right classes can help your child adjust without feeling overwhelmed:

Opt for Non-Academic Classes Initially: Fun, non-academic classes can reduce performance anxiety and provide more opportunities for socialization. It's always more fun to bond over art projects than history papers. Plus, you don't really know the academic quality of the co-op before you move. Use it for fun activities, not core subjects, until you can be sure they will offer the best academic preparation for your child.
Manage Homeschool Hours: Keep a reasonable homeschool schedule to allow your child ample time to develop friendships. Consider postponing demanding courses like AP or Honors classes until your child is settled in your new home and routine.

Adapting to New Academic Expectations

Be prepared for changes in academic standards and attitudes:

Expect Academic Variability: You might be surprised by a change in the academic expectations and worldview in your new location. These changes can be shocking at times. One state may have exceptionally high expectations or requirements for high school, and another state may struggle to provide a basic high school education. Expect a change in the state-wide attitude toward education. Without judging others, remember that you are responsible for the education of your own child, to the best of your ability. Don't compare yourself to others, just do your best.

Navigating Homeschool Group Culture

Each homeschool group has its own culture and norms. Here's how to ensure a smooth integration:

Dress Conservatively at First: Observe the group's norms before allowing your child to express individual fashion choices such as body piercings or unconventional hair colors. Sometimes the northern states and the southern states have radically different styles and modesty standards!
Plan for a Wardrobe Update: Save some money for new clothes that align with the local style about a month after moving. This may be most important for girls, I suppose, but teens may want to wear the same style of clothes as their new friends.

Final Tips

Stay Positive: Encourage your child to view the move as an adventure and an opportunity to make new friends and learn new things. Your positive attitude and example can lead the way to your children seeing the benefits and excitement of this new environment instead of what they miss.
Be Patient: Adjusting to a new environment takes time. Provide support and understanding as your child navigates this transition. Remember that feelings don't adhere to any kind of schedule, and they are rarely convenient. If it takes your teen several weeks or even months to adjust to their new home and the feelings that come with it, that is normal. Encourage them as best you can and let them know that you are there to listen.
Engage with the Community: Attend local events, volunteer, and engage with the broader community to help your family feel more integrated. For shy teens, this might be especially hard, so just take it at a pace you and your child are comfortable with.

Have you moved while homeschooling high school? What advice and tips can you share that would help others?
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