We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully. (Romans 12: 6-8 NIV)
Finding your child's area of specialization is an important part of our job as homeschooling parents. Everyone has their own unique gifts, and some are easier to spot than others. For whatever reason, I notice that sometimes parents can see their child's faults easier than they see their strengths. A gift is something that children will do repeatedly, over and over..... to the point of annoyance! Check yourself, the next time you feel annoyed at your children. As yourself, are you looking at their gifts? Is it annoying and do they do it so much, because that is the way they are wired? Is this what they are meant to do?
I'm not saying that all mothers will get annoyed at their children, but I sure did! Look at the things they do that annoy you, and see if it might be because they have different gifts then you. Then ask yourself: how can I encourage this gift in my child?
Do this and you will be helping your child understand their gifts and calling.
I have a lot more to say about discovering your children's gifts in my 5 part mini-course, “5 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make When Homeschooling High School.“ I know it will bless your family.