It can happen overnight. One day, your child is pleasant, cooperative, and enthusiastic about learning. The next day, well, not so much. It can happen to boys and girls. It's common, but that doesn't make it easier for parents to deal with. What do you do with a child who will only do the bare minimum, and really isn't interested in learning? Is it possible to motivate your teenager?
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Some teenagers will remain pleasant and generally cooperative, but will do everything in a uniquely slow-as-molasses way, with a seemingly complete lack of motivation. That's when you look heavenward, asking the age-old question, "Now what?" and try to figure out a way to motivate your teenager.
As I've worked with thousands of homeschoolers, I've developed a checklist of reasons why homeschoolers may be lazy, lackadaisical, or unmotivated couch potatoes resistant to learning. Many times, motivation is negatively affected by technology. We used to be told that technology would increase student participation and learning outcomes but now we see the opposite is true. Technology can make it more difficult to read, retain, and remain engaged. As homeschoolers, we need to ensure we have balanced technology in home education. You can find out more about teens and technology in my book, Technologic: How to Set Logical Technology boundaries and Stop the Zombie Apolcalypse.
But technology is not the only reason for a lack of motivation. Look over this list of 35 reasons why it might be difficult to motivate your teenager. Open your eyes so you can see the unexpected. The cause could be a physical issue or medical problem. Your parenting could need tweaking or homeschool expectations need to be balanced. It could be one of the serious and life-threatening causes that takes sometimes stealthy discernment.
Remember that your homeschool goal is a general love of learning. You can't make your child love math or writing but you can help them not hate it. Don't coddle them so they avoid their work but establish realistic expectations so they can retain their general love of learning.
Need more help? Check out the motivation section in my online resource, the High School Solution.
Since everybody, at one time or another, deals with unmotivated teens, the question becomes, "How can you motivate your teenager?"
As you know, lack of motivation is a form of resistance and children often resist because they lack problem solving skills. All kids (typically) are motivated by something. Finding that something is the key and will likely take work on your part, as well as that of your teen. So, here are some ways you can work on motivating your teenager.
The truth is some teenagers are more motivated than others. That's true of us as adults, too! Sometimes, your reaction to your child's lack of motivation is worse than the lack of motivation in your teen. Let that sink in.
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