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Homeschool No-No List

I usually encourage parents to do their best, but today I'm going to pause our regularly scheduled encouragement, and tell you what NOT to do.

Homeschool No-No List



Homeschool No-No List


Homeschoolers make mistakes sometimes. We tend to worry and sometimes we go overboard! We've all been there! That's why it's great to get some tips on what not to do from homeschoolers who have been through it all before. Here are just some of mine:

What NOT to do:

  1. Don’t try to do 4 years of high school before freshman year

  2. Don’t try to write course descriptions for classes you haven’t begun yet

  3. Don’t think you have to change everything to homeschool high school

  4. Don’t make your children take tests for high school when they are in junior high

  5. Don’t expect your children to demonstrate “senior” behavior the first day of freshman year

  6. Don't expect your children to work longer hours than the working spouse in your home

  7. Don't expect perfection, or perfect attentiveness, especially not all day long


This is a good start, but can you add to this list?  What No-No items can YOU add? Please share!



Please note: This post was originally published in November 2012 and has been revamped and updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.

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Comments 16

Guest - Amy on Saturday, 24 October 2015 16:22

My curriculum does a lot of quizzes and tests and I've really struggled with this. I have the option to not assign them, but I've felt like we should be doing them for high school. Yet, I feel like they aren't very useful and kind of a waste of time as I care more about my children understanding the subject matter. The discussion in the comments so far has been very helpful!

My curriculum does a lot of quizzes and tests and I've really struggled with this. I have the option to not assign them, but I've felt like we should be doing them for high school. Yet, I feel like they aren't very useful and kind of a waste of time as I care more about my children understanding the subject matter. The discussion in the comments so far has been very helpful!
Guest - Assistant to The HomeScholar on Monday, 26 October 2015 19:49

Dear Amy,
Like you, Lee is not a lover of tests. She found other ways to measure her sons' mastery of various subjects. You can read about it here: How Do I Grade Without Tests?
Blessings,
Robin
Assistant to The HomeScholar

Dear Amy, Like you, Lee is not a lover of tests. She found other ways to measure her sons' mastery of various subjects. You can read about it here: How Do I Grade Without Tests? Blessings, Robin Assistant to The HomeScholar
Guest - Elise on Saturday, 19 October 2013 12:48

Don't think there's a "PERFECT" curriculum for various subjects! It's still true in high school that the perfect curriculum is the one that works well for you and your child. There are many really good offerings...check out Cathy Duffy's book or website for a listing of great curriculums and find the one that's best for your family : )

Also, Lee's point about "Don’t think you have to change everything to homeschool high school" helped me resist the temptation to think I HAD to stop reading history to my kids when they entered 9th grade. I beefed up a 7th and 8th grade history curriculum with Teaching Company DVDs and read the books to my kiddos (Lee's suggestion) and we created wonderful memories through those times (& my son was able to do great on a CLEP test of that subject)! Thanks a million Lee!

Don't think there's a "PERFECT" curriculum for various subjects! It's still true in high school that the perfect curriculum is the one that works well for you and your child. There are many really good offerings...check out Cathy Duffy's book or website for a listing of great curriculums and find the one that's best for your family : ) Also, Lee's point about "Don’t think you have to change everything to homeschool high school" helped me resist the temptation to think I HAD to stop reading history to my kids when they entered 9th grade. I beefed up a 7th and 8th grade history curriculum with Teaching Company DVDs and read the books to my kiddos (Lee's suggestion) and we created wonderful memories through those times (& my son was able to do great on a CLEP test of that subject)! Thanks a million Lee!
Guest - Dawn@OneFaithfulMom (website) on Saturday, 01 December 2012 06:38

Never, Never sacrifice your relationship with your child over schoolwork.

Never, Never sacrifice your relationship with your child over schoolwork.
Guest - J W on Friday, 30 November 2012 19:16

Don't be afraid to learn something new alongside your child, and don't be afraid to "fail" that class yourself while your child easily gets an "A!" Case in point - Latin. We both love it. I'd flunk it if I were in a conventional school, my student would definitely get an "A." But as long as I have my cheat sheets, I can at least follow along, and my student is learning a lot because we consult with each other about new concepts and my student learns a lot from correcting my papers. Seriously.

Don't be afraid to learn something new alongside your child, and don't be afraid to "fail" that class yourself while your child easily gets an "A!" Case in point - Latin. We both love it. I'd flunk it if I were in a conventional school, my student would definitely get an "A." But as long as I have my cheat sheets, I can at least follow along, and my student is learning a lot because we consult with each other about new concepts and my student learns a lot from correcting my papers. Seriously.
Guest - Lee (website) on Friday, 30 November 2012 15:12

Suzanne, I mean the daily curriculum you use does not need to include tons of tests:
http://www.thehomescholar.com/how-to-assign-grades-without-grading.php. Yearly tests are helpful, but constant testing isn't really a learning activity
http://www.thehomescholar.com/homeschool-standardized-tests.php
Blessings,
Lee

Suzanne, I mean the daily curriculum you use does not need to include tons of tests: http://www.thehomescholar.com/how-to-assign-grades-without-grading.php. Yearly tests are helpful, but constant testing isn't really a learning activity :) http://www.thehomescholar.com/homeschool-standardized-tests.php Blessings, Lee
Guest - Dixie on Friday, 30 November 2012 14:10

Don't be terrified of subjects your children want to study that you can't teach. The necessary resources are out there! Find them, help your children access them, and provide accountability as well as encouragement (kudos!) while they take some responsibility for their OWN dreams and future. You don't have to teach everything--facilitate and manage instead!

Don't be terrified of subjects your children want to study that you can't teach. The necessary resources are out there! Find them, help your children access them, and provide accountability as well as encouragement (kudos!) while they take some responsibility for their OWN dreams and future. You don't have to teach everything--facilitate and manage instead!
Guest - CommonSenseMom (website) on Friday, 30 November 2012 12:13

Number 6 is very thought-provoking!

Number 6 is very thought-provoking!
Guest - Suzanne on Friday, 30 November 2012 12:03

Regarding #4; do you mean SAT type tests or course specific tests? My son took Algebra I in 7th and I had him take the CBE while it was fresh. He'll take the Geometry CBE this coming summer. Do you think I should have waited until later to test him?

Regarding #4; do you mean SAT type tests or course specific tests? My son took Algebra I in 7th and I had him take the CBE while it was fresh. He'll take the Geometry CBE this coming summer. Do you think I should have waited until later to test him? :)
Guest - Stephanie on Friday, 30 November 2012 10:35

Thanks Lee! I thought that's what you had in mind but wanted to clarify.

Thanks Lee! I thought that's what you had in mind but wanted to clarify.
Guest - Bonnie on Friday, 30 November 2012 10:25

Don't be afraid to include their non-book activities on transcripts. Example - working part-time at vet's office = credit in "Intro to Veterinary Science". or spending countless hours writing code for online gaming = "Computer Programming"

Don't be afraid to include their non-book activities on transcripts. Example - working part-time at vet's office = credit in "Intro to Veterinary Science". or spending countless hours writing code for online gaming = "Computer Programming"
Guest - Assistant to The HomeScholar (website) on Friday, 30 November 2012 11:06

Good point, Bonnie!
Lee has written about that quite a bit. She calls it "Occupational Education". Following are a couple of her posts on that very subject:
Occupational Education for the Confused Homeschool Parent
Occupational Education in 5 Easy Steps
Blessings!
Robin

Good point, Bonnie! Lee has written about that quite a bit. She calls it "Occupational Education". Following are a couple of her posts on that very subject: Occupational Education for the Confused Homeschool Parent Occupational Education in 5 Easy Steps Blessings! Robin
Guest - Christy on Friday, 30 November 2012 10:01

Don't ever say, "I'll homeschool until they get to high school, then I'll send them to school." Why undo all that you've accomplished in their lives, when what you are doing is what is best for them and has worked all their lives?

Don't ever say, "I'll homeschool until they get to high school, then I'll send them to school." Why undo all that you've accomplished in their lives, when what you are doing is what is best for them and has worked all their lives?
Guest - Lee (website) on Friday, 30 November 2012 09:54

Stephanie,
Some people think they need to change their homeschool just because their kids are entering 9th grade. They may think they MUST use tests, MUST use classical education, or MUST use textbooks. My advice is do what works. Even in high school, LOL!
Blessings,
Lee

Stephanie, Some people think they need to change their homeschool just because their kids are entering 9th grade. They may think they MUST use tests, MUST use classical education, or MUST use textbooks. My advice is do what works. Even in high school, LOL! Blessings, Lee
Guest - Stephanie on Friday, 30 November 2012 09:46

Actually could you clarify #3? What do you mean by that?

Actually could you clarify #3? What do you mean by that?
Guest - Laura on Friday, 30 November 2012 09:29

Yep. If you have overachieving kids, don't let them over-commit.

Yep. If you have overachieving kids, don't let them over-commit.
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